We weren’t rich. We wore clothes and sneakers from K-Mart. We never ate out. But we never went without, not by a longshot.
My parents were deeply present in my life and resourceful. They instilled in us the importance of looking out for each other, and they made sure we knew that “each other” didn’t end with family. It also included showing up when people needed us.
I can’t count the number of times my mom woke up early in the morning to make a big tray of lasagna or baked ziti for a neighbor who had a death in the family. Or when, after a big storm, my dad grabbed his saw and walked around town helping people remove downed trees.





